Every journey begins with acknowledging where you are
I was fairly self aware but today I faced up to my obesity and hit the gym for the first time in months. My first steps included confronting my poor eating and sleeping habits, lifestyle, and mindset of denial.
Several things have led to my weight gain in ’23
Working and snacking at home constantly
Comfort eating to escape unhappiness
No regular exercise guilted out of solo training
Of course, MG raised up and punished me with chronic fatigue after the workout.
Success is not accidental, I’m not cheating just increasing my chances of winning.
Yes, granted everyone needs their share of good luck and systemic bias in their favour but my success has never been down to pure luck and I take offence to suggestions from others who base their current state on bad luck.
Somewhere, somehow, you fucked up and this is where you find yourself so don’t blame bad luck.
Realise that where you are today is because of what you did or did not do yesterday.
Starting from Level 0 is always tough but my noob quest to get back to my pre-COVID level of unfitness has started. Probably the worst time of year to be thinking about health but I’m totally not happy with my physical state right now and nobody knows it but me.
Without even knowing it, the thirst for Respect is one of the key drivers for many Gamers. Buried deep in our subconscious we grind for better achievements and exotic talents that are higher than our peers with the overwhelming desire to be “liked” and Respected.
I’ve been running the same Blind Banshee build for months merely because is earns so much respect in Div 2 protecting the team and being an effective King-maker.
Here’s a Path to Respect
Be considerate
This build doesn’t kill NPCs very fast, but it sets up teammates to kill without being harmed.
Act respectfully
With hardly any real damage to NPCs, I need to encourage teammates to focus on certain non-obvious threats without demanding they “SHOT HERE”.
Listen and Watch well
I need to have good situational awareness, map knowledge and enemy spawn knowledge to anticipate where the threats come from and where they are likely to run to.
Be useful
Look out for teammates under severe threat of dying and disable the threat immediately.
Don’t make excuses
I’m very squishy so always need to look after myself and can’t blame anyone for me being out of position or foolishly flanked.
Let go of anger
Sometimes, it seems no one is shooting in the right places, just relax and be patient…don’t rage quit.
Be willing to change
If all fails or the team asks you to, switch to a Damage per second Build
Undoubtedly, in a year of constant bad news, watching the erasure of a racist, tyrant Bloodclat World leader has been the number one boast to my happiness.
It’s incredible how the audacity of hope hits me across the pond. Now it’s all about rebuilding a non-destructive situation and making my second home fantastic again.
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