When a Loved one is in chronic pain the only thing to do is help them with medication.
I’m rubbish at checking my online messages and sometimes go digitally AWOL. This causes a different kind of pain….Unreachable.


SECURITY RESEARCH AND DATA PRIVACY
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When a Loved one is in chronic pain the only thing to do is help them with medication.
I’m rubbish at checking my online messages and sometimes go digitally AWOL. This causes a different kind of pain….Unreachable.

I took a quick look at some Computer Misuse Act 1990 cases just trying to find some common denominators.

What kind of internal controls failed?
Did the perpetrator leave too many digital breadcrumbs and careless whispers because of emotion?
What defences did the perpetrators have? I.e. IDS, logs, VPNs, Encryption
What was the real goal of the crime?
Who were the technical accomplices?
Did they know it was wrong? i.e. linked to Malicious Communications Act 1988
Rule 1. Don’t talk about mental health, especially when it’s someone you know personally.
Rule 2. Never talk about Mental Health – It stirs up feelings of resentment, anger, guilt and helplessness towards the person who is ill.
Rule 3. Review Rule 1
It sucks but talking about someone’s fragile state of minds is a scary topic. I am totally unequipped to handle it when someone freaks out on me and starts acting “weird”.
There’s an overwhelming feeling of self-preservation that sweeps over me, almost like I think the person’s corrupted mental state is contagious.
My initial instinct is to run away, throw up a drone and snip them from a distance. Unfortunately, tactical moves from Ghost Recon® Wildlands will not work here.

How does one handle someone showing signs of massive memory loss, chronic paranoia, irrational thoughts and threats to self?
In the past, I’ve spent hours on the phone trying to show someone how to configure an email client.

Normally intelligent individuals suddenly become dummies when faced with anything “technical”.
Individuals are routinely breached because they are either
Too busy to care about basic hygiene (tech bits) Have no password management skills Have no trusted technical support partner Do not monitor their set-up …or most importantly, not bothered.
These same individuals take extreme cause with their daily online banking.
I worry profusely about everything, sometimes it cripples my ability to actually move forward with thought or actions.

I caught an interesting comment from a linguist stating that Chinese verbs never changes. Present, past or future tense are all the same so a statement like “Tomorrow it rained” is perfected acceptable.
Maybe this can help me get a hold of my anxiety and worry about the future and accept what is unavoidable.
Ok, this week I’m going to have to admit my failings even if those around me do not.
I can walk
I can talk
I have no pains
Thank You