{"id":2773,"date":"2017-03-22T09:00:56","date_gmt":"2017-03-22T09:00:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/?p=2773"},"modified":"2017-03-22T09:04:44","modified_gmt":"2017-03-22T09:04:44","slug":"beaten-with-an-idiot-stick-being-your-fool","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/?p=2773","title":{"rendered":"Beaten with an idiot stick\u2026.Being your Fool"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_2772\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2772\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-2772 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/pyrite-1435118_1920-300x265.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"265\" srcset=\"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/pyrite-1435118_1920-300x265.jpg 300w, https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/pyrite-1435118_1920-768x677.jpg 768w, https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/pyrite-1435118_1920-1024x903.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/pyrite-1435118_1920.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-2772\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">I keep chasing Fool&#8217;s Gold<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>My Chess ELO has risen to 1200 but I can confirm that in life I am still getting beaten with my very own Idiot Stick.<\/p>\n<p>Since Monday 13-March, my day has been dominated by the emotional side of my brain.<\/p>\n<p>Task orientated things are being missed and delayed. It\u2019s great to plan for ones\u2019 future but the here and now requires me to wake up.<\/p>\n<p>My idiot stick has always been Love. It makes me do things I wouldn\u2019t ordinarily contemplate.\u00a0 I\u2019ve chased Fool\u2019s Gold and been left standing there afterwards trying to figure out where I went wrong only to go do the same thing again and again.<\/p>\n<p>Now how do I balance and master both emotional and logical?<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Think about the Data Processing cycle and compare to a personal situation<\/p>\n<p>Throughout the entire process feelings of Happiness, Trust, Fear, Confusion and basic Rage co-exist with the devastating danger of a failed process.<\/p>\n<pre>Collection \u2013 Here\u2019s my number\u2026call me\r\n\r\nRecording \u2013 Are you filming me?\r\n\r\nOrganizing \u2013 Did you post that on social media?\r\n\r\nSelecting - Let\u2019s put together a photo gallery?\r\n\r\nRetrieving \u2013 I can't find the pictures\r\n\r\nComparing \u2013 Are these duplicate pictures?\r\n\r\nCommunicating \u2013 I want all the pictures you have of me\r\n\r\nDisseminating \u2013 I don\u2019t care how you send them\r\n\r\n\u2026and Erasing \u2013 How do I know you deleted them?<\/pre>\n<h4>3 methods to avoid relationship data disaster<\/h4>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u00a01.\u00a0\u00a0 Plan and set the ground rules upfront \u2013 tough to embrace at the \u201cHappiness Romance\u201d stage (Collecting and recording Data).<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">2.\u00a0\u00a0 Ask for what you want &#8211; Draw clear lines early, scope out what you want and how you want it<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">3.\u00a0\u00a0 Assume that there will be an \u201cEnd\u201d. Get ready to DELETE the DELETED.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My Chess ELO has risen to 1200 but I can confirm that in life I am still getting beaten with my very own Idiot Stick. Since Monday 13-March, my day has been dominated by the emotional side of my brain. Task orientated things are being missed and delayed. It\u2019s great to plan for ones\u2019 future &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/?p=2773\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Beaten with an idiot stick\u2026.Being your Fool&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[60],"tags":[91],"class_list":["post-2773","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-manhood","tag-fools-gold"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2773","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2773"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2773\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2779,"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2773\/revisions\/2779"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2773"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2773"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2773"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}