{"id":2728,"date":"2017-03-17T03:41:54","date_gmt":"2017-03-17T03:41:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/?p=2728"},"modified":"2017-03-16T20:09:38","modified_gmt":"2017-03-16T20:09:38","slug":"when-things-get-really-bad-run-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/?p=2728","title":{"rendered":"When things get really bad\u2026.run away"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s important to realise when you&#8217;ve lost the game. I\u2019m falling through parts of my life that are simply not working or where I have absolutely no control. One thing for sure it that I\u2019m no good at managing my own personal crisis.<\/p>\n<p>Managing others, no problem.<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2730 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/blood-20745_1920-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/blood-20745_1920-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/blood-20745_1920-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/blood-20745_1920-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/blood-20745_1920.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">When there&#8217;s that much poison in your blood, the only thing left to do &#8212; is shoot yourself.\u00a0 <\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><em>(SAW 2004)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>For me, running away sometimes means diving into my favourite second life.\u00a0 Some people drink, some people smoke, I play games.<\/p>\n<p>Most females I know pretty much see video games as something for children or men with nothing better to do.<\/p>\n<p>In reality, it\u2019s a place I run to escape my realities, it stops me from going <em>\u201cpostal&#8217;\u00a0<\/em> and wiping out everything and everyone near me.<\/p>\n<h4>Life escape routes &#8211; gaming or watching<\/h4>\n<table width=\"431\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td width=\"129\"><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Type<\/span><\/td>\n<td width=\"149\"><span style=\"color: #993300;\">PS4 time<\/span><\/td>\n<td width=\"152\"><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Life traits<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td width=\"129\">Occasional gaming<\/td>\n<td width=\"149\">Less than 1 hour a day<\/td>\n<td width=\"152\">Away from home base<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td width=\"129\">Casual gaming<\/td>\n<td width=\"149\">up to 3 hours a day<\/td>\n<td width=\"152\">At the end of the work day<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td width=\"129\">Serious gaming<\/td>\n<td width=\"149\">More than 3 hours a day<\/td>\n<td width=\"152\">During times of high anxiety or crisis<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td width=\"129\">Pro gaming<\/td>\n<td width=\"149\">More than 6 hours a day<\/td>\n<td width=\"152\">During times of intense isolation<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>The brutal honesty of gaming is essentially a middle finger to your physical life as well as serving as a single solution to feeling bad about yourself.<\/p>\n<h4>Some of the emotional drivers<\/h4>\n<p><strong>Escapism<\/strong> \u2013 a place to safely vent or get rid of destructive emotions<br \/>\n<strong>Fantasy<\/strong> \u2013 a place to feel successful or good about yourself<br \/>\n<strong>Love<\/strong> \u2013 a place to feel appreciated and needed<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">According to a recent survey, only 11% of IT Security Professionals are women, goodness knows what the statistics are like for female gamers.<a href=\"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/WomensReport.pdf\" target=\"_blank\"> download full report<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s important to realise when you&#8217;ve lost the game. I\u2019m falling through parts of my life that are simply not working or where I have absolutely no control. One thing for sure it that I\u2019m no good at managing my own personal crisis. Managing others, no problem. When there&#8217;s that much poison in your blood, &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/?p=2728\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;When things get really bad\u2026.run away&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14,60],"tags":[75,87,89],"class_list":["post-2728","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gaming","category-manhood","tag-fear","tag-personal-disaster","tag-rage"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2728","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2728"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2728\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2739,"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2728\/revisions\/2739"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2728"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2728"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clickonyx.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2728"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}